“ Andrea there will never be a right time”
“ you better do it before you get to old”
“ You should just tell your husband you want to have babies”
“ don’t let your
husband buy stuff like that you should be saving up for kids”
This was the latest and it was also the last straw
“ You know C and I were talking and we really want to throw
you a baby shower”
And instead of my standard, I know we’ll have kids soon
enough! Or it will happen when it’s supposed to…
I said, “oh I want to have kids, but I can’t. I’ve been trying for a long long time now and
it’s not going to happen anytime soon without very expensive medical
interventions. Its just not something I really like to talk about. If I get pregnant I’ll definitely tell you.”
To which she said, “oh” and tried to back pedal out of the
conversation.
That is the way to shut someone up, because its none of your
business when I have kids or if I ever have kids.
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