How to move on

I don’t know how to do this.  IVF was our last shot at getting pregnant.  We will not continue with fertility treaments.

How does a person move on and accept the fact that they will most likely never have kids?

I read a blog last night of a woman who can’t have children. The entire post was spent bashing women who feel their lives won’t be as good without children in them, other women struggling with infertility. She mentioned that she has a wonderful life, car, house, and is able to travel because she couldn’t have kids.  I would go without everything in order to have children, so who is this woman to put other women down because their dream was to have kids.  To me life is about family, not the material things.

I hope one day Ben and I are able to find peace with what we’re going through. That day isn’t today and won’t be tomorrow. Today we’re sad and angry.